Bullying is so prevalent that we often consider the victim when working towards a kinder society, but bullying impacts everyone involved, including the bullies themselves. Generally, bullies are often grappling with their own inner struggles, whereas happy individuals typically have no reason to bully others.
Consider this: with each act of bullying, perpetrators become increasingly desensitized to the suffering of their victims. They begin justifying their actions by convincing themselves that their targets somehow deserve mistreatment. Eventually, they adopt the belief that bullying is the only way to assert dominance. Consequently, bullies fail to develop crucial social skills like empathy, reciprocity, and negotiation – skills essential for fostering meaningful connections.
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